Thursday, September 18, 2008

Sweet Carter

Dear Friends,

3 years ago today we were blessed to meet Carter Lane Bevins, my nephew. Kim and Micah's precious son lived only a short time but he will forever be a part of our family. His sweet life has touched many and none of us who hear his story will ever be the same. All the moments of his life and the days surrounding it are forever etched in my memory. He had the sweetest little features and the most precious spirit. I am so thankful to God that he allowed me to be a part of his birth, life and death. I will never forgot the nurse telling me it is ok to keep shooting pictures. I think she could sense that I felt like the camera was intruding on this unexpected moment. "Someday," she said, "They will want to see them." It somehow felt so wrong, yet so right. So I kept shooting. Jarrett was able to put together a little video right after his death for Kim and Micah. Please, please go to my sister's blog today and leave a comment, even if you don't know her. It will mean so much to their family to know that we are all thinking and praying for them today. Her blog is www.bevinsfamily.blogspot.com or just click on the link on the side of my blog that says "KIMS BLOG" Thank you for your prayers for them today! Thank you LORD for holding my sweet sister in the palm of your hand during these difficult times. I praise your powerful and mighty name today and all the days of my life!!!

13 comments:

Dawn said...

Oh, Kathy, I'm crying again.
I've been to your sister's blog before many times. They are just amazing people with such a love and faith for the Lord.

I will go and leave a comment for her today.

Michelle said...

I am friends with Dawn, also I have met you through F. Baptist.
She told me about your blog and your sisters blog. What an amazing lady your sister is. I cried when I watched the slid show. She has such a strong spirit. It seems like you have a very sweet family.
I left a comment on her blog.

Mom said...

Kathy, thank you for your sweet words to Kim and Micah. Carter touched all our lives and I too am grateful to have him in our family. My heart is full knowing he is healed and in heaven. Love, Mom

Dawn said...

Kathy, I enjoyed visiting at lunch today. We need to do it again sometime.

I wanted to tell you I have a little bloggy award for you on my post today. :)
http://dawnsdiversions.blogspot.com/2008/09/i-got-something-to-say-dont-i-always.html

loremrn said...

I just happened to come across your video on YouTube and want to tell you how beautiful a remembrance. The pictures of staff working on the sweet baby. The tears of the nurses was heart rendering. It just gave me a lot of reassurance that there are those in the nursing profession that truly embrace their job. It is so clear that Christ was present for every one, especially baby Carter's family.

maria said...

After my daughter lost her baby, I often searched for other memorial videos. I came across the Carter Lane Bevins slide show and it made me cry for all the babies that never quite made it. Its only been a little less than 2 years but still feels like yesterday. I had the pleasure of holding my grandson for 45 minutes until his heart stopped beating. Most precious 45 minutes of my life.

Anonymous said...

I do not know your sister, but I just by chance happened to stumble across the video on youtube of her sweet little boy. It really got to me emotionally because MY little boy, Owen Christopher was born on the same exact day. 9/18/05 at 10:00 am. One of the happiest days of my life without a doubt. I was very lucky in that my son was born a perfectly healthy little boy at 7 lbs. 10 oz. and still is a happy and healthy 6 year old today. Sometimes I think we all take for granted what the Lord has blessed us with and although I hate to think that I would ever take my child(ren) for granted...I think I do at times. The youtube video was a wake up call and made me realize just how lucky and truly blessed I have been. I am sorry your sweet little nephew did not make it. I cannot imagine the pain in losing a child! Especially on a day that is supposed to be filled with excitement, anticipation and happiness. I am praying and will continue to pray for your family. You are all amazingly strong and I am sure I am not the only person that has been deeply touched by this. God Bless.

natm78 said...

I was searching youtube for songs appropriate for an infant's funeral and saw Carter's slide show. I then googled his name and found your blog. I tried to access the blog, but it was private. My heart goes out to you. I am 34 weeks pregnant with a little boy who has been diagnosed with trisomy 13 and several heart defects among other birth defects. We have been told he will probably only live a few hours, if he is born alive. Thw slide show was beautiful and I'm sure your sister is very grateful to have such amazing and candid photos. I certainly hope I will.

RachelParedes said...

I didn't want to bother you nor your family. I stumbled upon your sister's video on youtube when I was looking for videos with Michael W. Smith songs.

I was so moved and touched by the presentation and the internal courage that showed on everyone's faces. I could see so much love, so much understanding, and so much passion for life in those moments.

I am not a mother so I cannot understand what you went through, but I will say this. That video is a blessing to us all. It reminds us to hold fast and hold dear to the people in our lives. That living our lives well and loving other people is why we were brought into this world.

I am inspired to do good because of that video, so thank you for your gift. I will never forget what I saw. Many blessings, prayers, and love to your family.

God Bless!

Rachel

Christina said...

Thank you so much for your 'Hello Goodbye' video. I found it by accident last night, but have watched it many times now and cannot help but cry each time. I am a new mum of a 7 week old son. The short life of Carter expressed through the video has made me realise that I must not take for granted the life of my son, even when being a parent is a challenge. I will remember babies like Carter each time I look into my baby's face, and make the most of every single moment. Thank you so much for sharing Carter's story with the world. I pray God blesses you and Carter's parents & siblings.

phreec said...

i am sad that i cannot leave a message on Kim's blog, but please know, and share with her and her family, that my thoughts are with her, and a few prayers that they are all happy and healthy while they are waiting to meet Carter!
THANK YOU, and God Bless You for the loving tribute!! <3
~christi
virginia beach, va

PurcellOkieMom said...

I tried going to the blog as instructed but it was marked as accessed by invite only. Is there a way to get a invite? :) www.bevinsfamily.blogspot.com

Tamara said...

I somehow found myself watching your youtube video and I cried the whole way. How amazing a gift you gave your sister by continuing to take the photos. I couldn't help but notice the nurse who was doing the respirations. She really REALLY cared and you could see it. I ache for your family, and even though it's been around 8 years, the memory will not fade. Please tell your sister (the blog is private or I'd tell her myself) thank you for sharing that moment with us. I am an RN and I know that will stay with me as I care for my patients. Peace to you all, -Tamara